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        1. Well & truly a slash thing now (10)
      
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      Date:    Fri, 27 Sep 2002 16:03:51 -1000
      From:    MacWestie <mac.westie@verizon.net>
      Subject: Re: Well & truly a slash thing now
      
      Pat before--
      > > > Sorry, but you can't use me to make your point.   I'm not a slasher &
      > > > never have been.
      
      then me--
      > >Well, you (& a few others) joined in the ongoing slash discussion
      (welcome,
      > >by the way) specifically to slash characters I mentioned.
      
      
      Pat--
      > Sorry, wrong again.   I joined the discussion in response to Liser's post.
      
      
      Actually, you included this in your 1st post--
      > Pat  (who thought Hank Reardon & Francisco d'Anconia made a lovely
      couple)
      
      And later you said this--
      >>>Also, when I first read Atlas Shrugged decades ago I didn't even know
      there
      was such a thing as slash.   I still thought Hank & Francisco had a
      physical relationship.>>>
      
      You slashed fictional characters.
      
      
      > I replied that I'm not a slash-fan and still saw sexual overtones in the
      > Chivalry nose-painting scene.
      
      That's nonsensical.  As I said before--
      > >You slashed, therefore you are ... a slasher.
      
      
      > Pretty nifty when you get to define the words as you go along, isn't
      > it?
      
      At least my definitions make sense.  You seem to prefer eating your cake,
      then denying it had any calories.
      
      
      me, then Pat--
      > >A film version of AS has been threatened for several decades now, & I
      hope
      > >it never gets made--& not only due to it being natural slash bait.
      >
      > Hey, you see it too!  <g>
      
      As others have mentioned, it is easy enough to see what will set slashers
      off, even if to me it is totally hetero or simply a non-sexual thing.
      
      Pat, then me, then Pat (follow along!)--
      > > > (Not everyone fits into neat little boxes with pretty labels.)
      > >
      > >Sure they do--if one doesn't mind a bit of mess & has the right tools.
      >
      > Not if the victim refuses to co-operate and has tools of her own.
      
      See--you've got the "I'm a victim" line down--you're a natural slasher.
      
      
      Pat--
      >BTW, how does
      > seeing sexual overtones in a scene constitute "beating up" on Duncan?
      
      In a couple ways, at least.
      
      1st--the "beating up" is often quite literal in slash, especially HL slash.
      The sex scenes can be quite violent, bloody & downright brutal.  Next
      morning, everyone's all healed & ready to go again--a perk of Immie healing
      powers.  The more disturbing variation may be when DM is cast in the
      aggressor/brutalizer role in those stories, so then he gets all angsty w/
      post-coital guilt.  Really, it's not pretty, no matter who is literally
      abused.
      
      Also, there's the fact that most slash has not only homosexual sex, but it
      has characters who are less than thrilled about it.  NOT happy people,
      enjoying their sexual lifestyle.  For at least part of the story, they are
      confused, inept, nervous, ashamed, guilty, or otherwise tormented.  And,
      often the relationship & sex is about all the story has going on, so DM, for
      example, is reduced to lolling around in bed w/ another guy &, between the
      ecstatic moments, feeling miserable about it.  I don't think much slash has
      DM being the DM we know (who, despite an overall angsty existence, at least
      found uncomplicated joy in bed as a heterosexual) from the series, _except_
      for preferring a man's company in bed.  Slash  changes & lessens him.
      
      If you don't like my explanation, here's ZK's comment from a few days ago--
      >>>I think that part of the reason for Duncan/anyone slash is that it
      puts Duncan in the role of a - um - Immortal PoRA(tm) :::: giggling
      ::::.  Duncan knew a great deal about a lot of things; I think we
      lose track sometimes of just how widely he traveled, and how
      sophisticated he was.  Even if he couldn't sing a note, he knew
      music from Gregorian chant to jazz.  He was a quiet patron of arts
      and education and could function smoothly in many different
      cultures.  He was always reading and learning.  Putting him - um -
      on the bottom of a slash relationship is putting him in a place
      where he is inexperienced, ignoranat, and can be seen as weak and
      pliable.>>>
      
      
      Vicki joins in re: the above--
      >Not to put too fine a point on it, but I'd like to know the answer to
      > that question, too.
      
      I feel like there's some point YOU were trying to make.  Maybe you could try
      again.
      
      Nina
      mac.westie@verizon.net
      Save Farscape http://farscape.wdsection.com/index.php
      Frell Sci Fi, just on principle.
      
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      Date:    Fri, 27 Sep 2002 22:19:57 -0400
      From:    Morgan <morrigan13@earthlink.net>
      Subject: Re: Well & truly a slash thing now
      
      Nina says of Pat:
       >Actually, you included this in your 1st post--
       >> Pat  (who thought Hank Reardon & Francisco d'Anconia made a lovely
       >couple)
       >
       >And later [Pat] said this--
       >>>>Also, when I first read Atlas Shrugged decades ago I didn't even know
       >there
       >was such a thing as slash.   I still thought Hank & Francisco had a
       >physical relationship.>>>
      
      Nina:
       >You slashed fictional characters.
      Pat:
       >> I replied that I'm not a slash-fan and still saw sexual overtones in the
       >> Chivalry nose-painting scene.
      
      Nina:
       >That's nonsensical.  As I said before--
       >> >You slashed, therefore you are ... a slasher.
      
      Nina again:
       >As others have mentioned, it is easy enough to see what will set slashers
       >off, even if to me it is totally hetero or simply a non-sexual thing.
      
      So what is the difference between seeing, as you say, Nina, "what will set
      slashers off" and, as Pat says above, seeing "sexual overtones in the [scene]?
      
      How does that make one person a "slasher" and one not?
      
      Pat:
       >> > > (Not everyone fits into neat little boxes with pretty labels.)
      Nina:
       >> >Sure they do--if one doesn't mind a bit of mess & has the right tools.
      Pat
       >> Not if the victim refuses to co-operate and has tools of her own.
      Nina:
       >See--you've got the "I'm a victim" line down--you're a natural slasher.
      
      All "slashers" have delusions (thoughts, unjustified beliefs) of victimization?
      
      !perverse(just looking for some clarification)
      morrigan13@earthlink.net
      
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      Date:    Fri, 27 Sep 2002 20:57:59 -0600
      From:    Donna Gum <djgum@earthlink.net>
      Subject: Re: Well & truly a slash thing now
      
      Nina:
      
      >Also, there's the fact that most slash has not only homosexual sex, but it
      >has characters who are less than thrilled about it...  <cut>
      
      
      So.
      
      Let me get this straight.
      
      You read slash because you're just doing research about what it's really
      about so you can debate it on list???
      
      djgum@earthlink.net
      
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      Date:    Fri, 27 Sep 2002 18:09:31 -1000
      From:    MacWestie <mac.westie@verizon.net>
      Subject: Re: Well & truly a slash thing now
      
      Donna--
      > Let me get this straight.
      > You read slash because you're just doing research about what it's really
      > about so you can debate it on list???
      
      No.  I have read slash; I checked out slash along w/ quite a few other
      things when I got online--as I would bet a lot of people do.  I don't read
      slash these days.  Research--no.  I'm on lists, etc. where slash is one of
      many topics.  I've been in  a few of these discussions over the years.
      
      Slash is supposed to be fandom's deepest darkest secret, but fans just can't
      resist distributing it via the world's most public forum--the internet.  The
      contradiction really isn't my fault.
      
      Would you prefer that slash not be discussed by anyone but its adherents?
      Why?
      
      Nina
      mac.westie@verizon.net
      Save Farscape http://farscape.wdsection.com/index.php
      Frell Sci Fi, just on principle.
      
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      Date:    Sat, 28 Sep 2002 00:14:09 -0700
      From:    Jen Allen <jen@jendaveallen.com>
      Subject: Re: Well & truly a slash thing now
      
      MacWestie wrote:
      
      > Also, there's the fact that most slash has not only homosexual sex, but it
      > has characters who are less than thrilled about it.  NOT happy people,
      > enjoying their sexual lifestyle.
      
      Wow, are we reading different stories.
      
      Sure, some people write that stuff, but I wouldn't say it constitutes
      "most" of the stories in the genre.
      
      Then again, maybe you've read a lot more of it than I have. I only go
      for the stories that are recommended to me by people I trust, and they
      rarely recommend the rape stories you discuss above.
      
      Homosexual love DOES NOT EQUAL rape, any more then heterosexual love
      does. Nor are all homosexual relationships initiated via rape. Sometimes
      they stem from boredom, 'simple' curiousity, a need for release with no
      other means available, a deep attraction for the other person that
      overrides someone's usual gender choice, or a need for
      comfort/validation due to external circumstances (external as in someone
      other than their partner has hurt them either emotionally or
      physically). Sometimes those relationships last and sometimes they
      don't. Sometimes they're exploitive and sometimes not. The run the full
      range, just the way het ones do.
      
      Try reading a different sort of slash story and see how it goes.
      
      Jen
      
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      Date:    Sat, 28 Sep 2002 10:11:24 +0200
      From:    Marina Bailey <tmar@sifl.iid.co.za>
      Subject: Re: Well & truly a slash thing now
      
      >All "slashers" have delusions (thoughts, unjustified beliefs) of
      >victimization?
      
      Hey, that may even be true. If it is... gee, I wonder why?
      
      - Marina.
      
      \\ "I don't care about their different thoughts; ||>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>  //
      //     different thoughts are good for me."      || R I C H I E >>  \\
      \\               - Tanita Tikaram                ||>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>  //
      //=====Marina Bailey=====tmar@sifl.iid.co.za=====||                 \\
      \\==============Chief Flag Waver and Defender of Richie=============//
      
      "Great. Now I'm a slash enabler." - Nina
      
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      Date:    Fri, 27 Sep 2002 23:13:58 -1000
      From:    MacWestie <mac.westie@verizon.net>
      Subject: Re: Well & truly a slash thing now
      
      Morgan--
      > So what is the difference between seeing, as you say, Nina, "what will set
      > slashers off" and, as Pat says above, seeing "sexual overtones in the
      [scene]?
      
      Experience, I guess, in various fandoms.  A couple other people here (I
      _think_ Liser & Wendy) said about the same thing lately.  It isn't hard to
      spot, even though the given scene/situation/comment doesn't seem slashy to
      me.  I do not think the characters were intended to or are attracted to each
      other sexually, but I can just hear slashers whooping "aha!" & typing away.
      
      I do think, though, that the most important criteria for slash in general
      are 1) that the males on a given show be attractive to _women_ & 2) show
      zero interest in each other sexually.  The less likely, the better.  That's
      generally irresistable slash bait.
      
      
      > All "slashers" have delusions (thoughts, unjustified beliefs) of
      victimization?
      
      I doubt "all" of any group do anything.  But, a common thread in
      free-wheeling slash discussions (this one has been quite mild) is for
      slashers eventually to bemoan their lot--no one understands us, you people
      just refuse to see the obvious, you're being mean to imply we're doing
      anything odd, how dare you say we're perverts, & (of course) any criticism
      of us is based on homophobia.  Marina sort of summed up the general idea
      herself earlier, light-heartedly but still w/ a grain of truth, I think.
      
      >>>Yeah, us poor slash fans, the pariahs of the fanfic world. It's okay.
      We're used to it. Most slash fans are used to keeping quiet about
      their "secret passion" on gen/het lists.>>>
      
      Is their impression of victimization true or false?  It seems to me they
      don't like being called on doing what they do. My suggestion would be--OK,
      so stop doing it.  But they are having fun & really like slashing, so they
      prefer that people stop _talking_ about what they do, I guess so they can
      continue doing it  w/ an easier conscience.
      
      Nina
      mac.westie@verizon.net
      Save Farscape http://farscape.wdsection.com/index.php
      Frell Sci Fi, just on principle.
      
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      Date:    Sat, 28 Sep 2002 13:03:56 +0100
      From:    beccaelizabeth <r.day@netcom.co.uk>
      Subject: Re: Well & truly a slash thing now
      
      MacWestie wrote:
      > I do think, though, that the most important
      >criteria for slash in general
      > are 1) that the males on a given show be
      >attractive to _women_ & 2) show
      > zero interest in each other sexually.
      >The less likely, the better.  That's
      > generally irresistable slash bait.
      
      The Sentinel.  yes for (1) but for (2) blooper tapes
      
      besides it do depend on your definition of slash.  some peoples
      definition doesnt include same sex but does include non canon.  My
      definition just includes same sex.  Buffy did its own slash.
      
      what I personally would consider slash bait is any emotional
      relationship between two same sex characters, preferably with lots of
      touching or spending time together outside of the plot heavy areas of a
      show (like outside of work).  to take a friendship like that and have it
      lead to a sexual relationship seems kinda natural.
      another kind of invitation to fic is any glaring lack of relationship.
      characters that are both on a show but rarely share screen time.  Its
      the same appeal as with crossover fic- put them together and see what
      happens.  sometimes what your minds eye sees is hot sex.
      
      You get the full range of situations in slash that you do in stories in
      general.  so you get the loving cuddly happy type stories, the plot
      heavy epics, the PWP smut, the angst fest, and the episodes + same sex
      relationship.  I couldnt point you at DM/whoever stories for each of
      those (frankly the guy makes me go yeerk these days) but I'm fairly sure
      they exist.
      
      The rough sex in Highlander does exist, maybe more so than for other
      fandoms.  I guess the lure is to have total freedom, to do whatever you
      want and still show no sign of it later.  Like in Blade 2, the house of
      pain?  Bunch of vampires slicing each other up for fun.  if you're going
      to regenerate, its all just sensation.  RL doesnt let you explore that-
      you hurt someone, they need hospital treatment, its a whole nasty
      thing.  if no matter how much you hurt someone they will heal up
      perfect, you would get Immortals like cory raines (?)(roadrunner
      episode, money no object) who just think that hurting other Immortals is
      a no harm no foul thing.  why wouldnt that attitude carry over to sex?
      so to write about it is a short step from the original premise.
      logical, sorta.
      
      and people write slash for the full range of reasons anyone writes
      fiction- to be creative, to see what happens next, to interact with
      their readers.  slash just lends itself especially well to exploring
      certain themes.
      
      Sometimes slash fic is a way of highlighting the assumptions and
      prejudices that a writer finds completely illogical, or suggesting some
      kind of bisexual utopian alternative.  Something I see in a lot of
      mainstream SF is the tendency to reassess the social and sexual norm, to
      put people in a different context and show normal is a matter of habit
      rather than necessity.  Or to show people their own assumptions by
      turning them upside down.   Highlander is also a good place for
      presenting alternative social norms
      because flashbacks can happen anywhere in any part of history.  Some of
      the best researched Highlander fanfic reads almost like a tour of sexual
      mores through the centuries.  One author I know writes fully referenced
      fanfic and researches her settings exhaustively- if she has a
      transvestite priest in ancient sumeria, or a same sex wedding ceremony,
      the references will give the studies she used to back up the idea.  Its
      really great fun.  (for the kind of person whos idea of fun is every
      story leading to a new bookshelf for the bibliography and further
      reading sections).
      
      
      > Is their impression of victimization true or false?
      >  It seems to me they
      > don't like being called on doing what they do.
      > My suggestion would be--OK,
      > so stop doing it.  But they are having fun
      >& really like slashing, so they
      > prefer that people stop _talking_ about what they do,
      > I guess so they can
      > continue doing it  w/ an easier conscience.
      
      my impression is people dont like being flamed for what they do.  slash
      is flamebait because you get all the fanfic issues plus all the same sex
      issues.
      
      my impression of this discussion is every time someone gives an answer
      someone else sort of ups the stakes, brings in another issue entirely.
      like going from talk about slash, to do you slash real people, to actor
      fic.  that to me is bringing in new topics just so you can find fault
      with them.  which reads like trying real hard to turn a discussion into
      an argument.
      
      beccaelizabeth
      http://www.geocities.com/Athens/Delphi/4212
      The Secret of a Balanced Life is Reverence and Mirth in
      Equal Proportion
      Everybody is somebody else's weirdo
      Fans are viewers who speak back to the networks and the producers, who
      assert their right to make judgments and to express opinions about the
      development of favorite programs.
      
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      Date:    Sat, 28 Sep 2002 16:50:25 +0200
      From:    Marina Bailey <tmar@sifl.iid.co.za>
      Subject: Re: Well & truly a slash thing now
      
      Nina wrote:
      >Is their impression of victimization true or false?  It seems to me they
      >don't like being called on doing what they do. My suggestion would be--OK,
      >so stop doing it.  But they are having fun & really like slashing, so they
      >prefer that people stop _talking_ about what they do, I guess so they can
      >continue doing it  w/ an easier conscience.
      
      I don't think that's the case. I *like* talking about the various
      aspects of slash. And I certainly don't only want to talk about
      slash with people who agree with me. How boring is that? If I
      disliked talking about slash I would have kept my mouth shut.
      (Uh-huh - you know how likely *that* is.)
      
      I'm not even sure that our discussion could be termed "being called
      on what [slashers] do". Every discussion makes me think more about
      why I like slash: why I read it, why I used to write it, why I feel
      compelled to defend it, etc. And my conscience is certainly clear.
      I don't want people to stop talking about it, but I understand if
      some people feel uncomfortable being asked continually why they like
      slash, and people implying there is something wrong with it. I don't
      think there is, although YMMV. I'm here for the discussions; if I
      didn't want to be part of them, I would keep quiet.
      
      And come on, this has turned into quite a long-running thread. We
      should be proud. :)
      
      - Marina. (Back to the old padded room now.)
      
      \\ "I don't care about their different thoughts; ||>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>  //
      //     different thoughts are good for me."      || R I C H I E >>  \\
      \\               - Tanita Tikaram                ||>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>  //
      //=====Marina Bailey=====tmar@sifl.iid.co.za=====||                 \\
      \\==============Chief Flag Waver and Defender of Richie=============//
      
      "Great. Now I'm a slash enabler." - Nina
      
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      Date:    Sat, 28 Sep 2002 11:16:43 -0500
      From:    L Cameron-Norfleet <cgliser@earthlink.net>
      Subject: Re: Well & truly a slash thing now
      
      >Nina again:
      >>As others have mentioned, it is easy enough to see what will set slashers
      >>off, even if to me it is totally hetero or simply a non-sexual thing.
      
      Morgan:
      
      >So what is the difference between seeing, as you say, Nina, "what will set
      >slashers off" and, as Pat says above, seeing "sexual overtones in the [scene]?
      >
      
      
      Speaking only for myself here (okay, maybe for the dogs, too).  And
      I'm...having a hard time defining the line that you're wanting
      explanation of.  I think it has more to do with being able to train
      oneself to see things from a different perspective without actually
      *buying into* that perspective.  I think, for me, anyway, it comes
      from having so many slash discussions over the years and listening to
      so many people point to what they see as evidence of slashy subtext.
      
      Because I have heard Marina and others talk about the things they see
      as representative of slash, I've learned to identify them myself.
      It's sort of like reading a poem in a Lit class, I guess.  I can read
      it and get one thing out of it and then my Prof can make the argument
      that the red wheelbarrow is really a symbol of communism.  Given the
      "symbol key" that she's shared, I can go back and say "Okay, I can
      see how this might be representative of that", but it doesn't mean
      that I truly believe it.  Marina (and others) have given me a symbol
      key to slash over the years and I'm now capable of interpreting a
      work that way on a purely academic level.  I could write a paper
      about the slashy intonations between Methos and Duncan throughout the
      series, but I wouldn't buy a word of it.
      
      >How does that make one person a "slasher" and one not?
      
      
      I think this boils down to the level that you accept the slash at.  I
      can recognize the pieces of the work that will be taken  and turned
      into slashy interpretations, but I don't *believe* that they are
      truly indicative of slash.  I, personally, could not write a slash
      story based on any of them and I, personally, have a hard time
      swallowing the concept of slash between the characters in question.
      
      Slashers, obviously, do not have that problem. :-)
      
      Does this mean that I see those "sexual overtones" that Pat
      mentioned?  I suppose that if you want to get technical about it,
      yes.  But I prefer to think that what I see is the *potential* for
      such.  Or, rather, the potential for certain actions or words to be
      *interpreted as such* by those inclined to do so.
      
      
      Liser
      (suddenly feeling kind of zen-like)(Ommmmmm)
      --
      L Cameron-Norfleet ** cgliser@earthlink.net
      "I find tongues in trees, books in running brooks,
      sermons in stones, and good in everything." Shakespeare: As You Like It
      
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